Widower
How acrid the word,
how sour the suffix—
that barrier,
two spaces on paper, an ocean in person,
between me and mourning.
Which smug sesquipedalian Oxbridge fuck
decided grief has a gender?
Was -er the best you could do?
How dare you—an acting suffix,
as if I wrought this on myself,
as if all the things I could have done
don't bay for me in the night like hounds.
But enough about me,
too much about me—
and certainly more than enough about Oxbridge.
My love,
this veil of verbiage
only pushes us farther apart.
I know not what you think of the word 'widow.'
Many years will pass
before I may again see you
smirk at my rebellion
or scoff at my pedantry.
But whatever it evokes—
the venomous spider,
the living war casualty,
the matron in black,
the suspect in a fabulous coat—
I will bear it all, I will,
just to be
two
spaces
closer to you.
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